Everything happens for a reason

 Thank you. 
Thank you for being there when no one else could.  Thank you for teaching me this lesson in life. Thank you for responding to me because like I said, it really means a lot.

Thank you for changing me.

A part of me always wish we could go back as friends like the way it is before but I always knew that’s impossible. For we both are two different person living in a completely different world. Both You and I are happy with how things are right now. As much as it hurt, it hurts a little lesser now. It’s a good thing we finally ended things officially after four long gruesome year. 

Thank you for the most beautiful friendship that has the most painful memories. 

You’ll always be my best friend and no one could ever replace you.

Good bye.

Love always, Me.


It hurts

It hurts me a lot to see you’re having so much fun on your birthday. 

It hurts me to think that my message would be the least of your concern. 

It hurts me to think who am I to send you that text message. afterall, we’re no longer friends.

How selfish of Me. But god, this hurt so much. 

Happy birthday and I’m so glad that you’re happy.

– from the girl whose no longer part of your life.

7th July 2017

Pink sky are absolutely stunning. I can’t take my eyes off the beautiful sky. 

Today’s post is a little random since I just wanna casually update about my life. Today has got to be the best date ever. 07/07/17 my favorite number, “7”. Had a job interview earlier this morning, travelled from east to west and it ended quite well since I landed the job and will be starting next Monday. Somehow I’m very excited yet scared because I really want to do well and I can only hope for the best. Next, I’m having my exam on the coming 11th. Probably should get back to studying. 

All the best to myself! 


Be Different, Be Yourself

It actually took me quite a while to gather up my courage to choose this topic to write about today and it also took me some time to figure out how I’m supposed to put this into words since I’m so overwhelmed by feelings.

As you can see in the beginning of this post I’ve attached an image. Just like every other post on here but this is something much more different from what I’ve usually post. Which brings me to my topic for today – Being different.

Dear whoever is reading this,
It’s perfectly okay to be different from everyone else. You do not need to be the same to fit in with everyone. You are where you belong, on earth with a bunch of humans just like you. Regardless of race, religion, body type or sexuality. YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE. You are a HUMAN just like all the 7 billions people in this world. Your race, religion, body type or sexuality DOES NOT DEFINE YOU.

If you feel ashamed of who you are because of any of the reasons I’ve said above, please don’t. You are perfect the way you are and you are unique the way you are. Please don’t try to change yourself for society just because they say you “can’t fit in” or you’ll be alone because that is all bullshit. You’ll fit in just right because you are already a part of it. Do not change yourself into someone you’re not because that isn’t you and it’s not going to make you happy.The society would be “pleased” but who are they to have a say in your life? NOTHING.  Don’t hide and Don’t pretend. Embrace yourself and be yourself.

Here’s a little something about me: I’m an Asian, I am born into a semi-conservative family and almost half of my relatives from my Dad’s side are Christian (and they love to follow the rules – Don’t get me wrong, it’s not a bad thing and besides, I love my cousins). With that being said, as many may know, being born into an Asian family means things are gonna be a lot stricter than how it is in the western countries. So things like,  having good grades, doctors/lawyers and government jobs are the best, no time for creativity jobs,  no sex before marriage and etc. But there are some things Asians families are really particular about such as – a boy needs to act like a boy, a girl needs to act like a girl, a boy can only like girls and vice versa which means no same-sex relationship, and males over females.

So growing up, I was told to follow those “rules” and I have to act girly because I’m a girl. We got to play with dolls, be pretty, skinny, wear dresses, have long beautiful hairs and put on make up etc. I am pretty uncomfortable with most things that are said above except having long hairs. I knew I was different as my cousins and in fact all the other girls in this country. They fancied make ups and etc while I just don’t. Like give me a pair of t-shirt and short, put on some sneakers and I’m good to go. But I used to think, being different is not a good thing because it makes me look like a freak, like a fish out of water and simply because I couldn’t fit in the category of “Girls”. I can’t behave like all the other girls, I can’t try to be other girls and I just can’t do most things all the other girls love. For a few years in my teenage life, I wasn’t very happy with who I am. I am constantly trying to fit in to society, I am always trying to be someone else that I’m not and I absolutely hated who I was. I’ve questioned myself many times, “Why can’t I be skinny like every other girls?”, “Why don’t I fancied make ups?”, “Why do I not like pretty dresses”, “Why do I not like shopping” and so many more questions. Because I just don’t get it. Why am I so different from everyone else?!

When I was 17, I had this dream (a little irrelevant but you’ll understand why I mentioned this). I dreamt that I died, and it’s the same dream for 3 days. It’s always the same scene of how I died and the same time of when I woke up for the first two days but for the third day, it’s a little different because, I actually saw myself lying in the coffin. Needless to say, I was so terrified that I force myself to wake up. Then it got me thinking, sometimes dream interpret something it could be positive or negative and I found out mine was a mixture of both but then I stumbled into this statement, “dreaming of your own death often happens when you are facing the end of something — perhaps a career, marriage or other major life-altering change. It can also reflect that something has died within the self or symbolize a new beginning or new chapter in your life. It might also be a dream telling you to leave all of your cares behind and start something new. An important fact that the dream may be telling you is to take a look at your own habits and how they are affecting your health, both physical and mental.” It was like a sign for me to wake up because I wasn’t happy with who I was. I need to become who I am truly meant to be and I need to start a new beginning, in a new book. Ever since that day, I’ve decided to stop trying to be someone else that I’m not. So I’ve dropped everything down, no more pretending, no more hiding and decided to be Me. This dream makes me open my eyes wide and allows me to take a look at everyone around me. At that point I realized, everyone is different in their own ways and it’s okay to be different. I embraced my body type, I embraced my race and religion and who I truly am. I’ve never been happier because this is who I am meant to be. Fuck what societies says about how everyone should be. And I realized, I’m not alone as there are millions or perhaps billions of people who are like me and till today I am still happy with myself.

I told myself, it’s okay if I don’t wear make ups, dresses, heels or like shopping. It does not mean I’m not a girl. I still have my periods every month, I like pink and also black and I’m still a girl, just a little different.

Today, I’ve stumbled upon a Facebook video about the LGBT and I feel so happy yet so sad. I was in tears when I saw how happy they were when they came out and embraced their sexuality but, I felt so sad because most of them dared not to let their family know about it. Fearing they would not be accepted and they would be judged by everyone. When I was younger, I simply don’t get how can the same-sex like each other or how a girl wants be a boy and a boy wants to be a girl. I was told a girl should like a boy, vice versa and a girl should always be a girl and vice versa. So why does this happened? Then when I reached my “turning point” in life, I realized there’s no “why” to that question because it is how it is, the fact that there’s NOTHING wrong being apart of the LGBT because they are human who are simply just being who they are. Being different, Being themselves.

Question: Why can’t everyone be accepting and loving? 

There shouldn’t be any boundaries between love. Love is just love. You love with all your heart. You love because you care. You show your affections to them. Love doesn’t restrict who you could love and who you shouldn’t love. But this world is filled with love and also hate. There are many people, who don’t understand that LOVE IS FREE FROM RULES. You do not love because you were told to love. You love because you were meant to love everything around you. It does not have a boundaries around it. If they are happy loving the same-sex, or trying to be who they really are even by going all out in changing their gender, go ahead. Do whatever makes you happy. Do not stop because you’re afraid to show everyone else you are different. Do not be afraid of being your true self. Do not let anyone stop you from your own happiness.

Are the LGBT not humans? Do they not come out from their Mother’s vagina? Do they not eat/drink/pee/fart/shit/sleep? Do they not have hands, legs, face and a body? They do. They are exactly the same as all the other 7 billions people in this world. Just because they are different from their sexuality, it doesn’t make them not human. It does not make them a freak. SO WHY CAN’T PEOPLE BE ACCEPTING AND LOVING? Does them loving the same-sex makes you decrease your life span? NO. Does what the LGBT people do affect your lives? NO. Some might say yes because of how their actions “disgust” them. But they are humans, they are allowed to show affection to each other just like everyone else. There shouldn’t be any restricting for it. What the LGBT does it will not affect your lives, because they are just like everyone else in this world. They love and act the same way.

If everyone is more accepting and loving, how great would this world be?


Love, Me



Life is all about making decisions. Every decision has a different outcome. Right or wrong decision brings you somewhere. It could be somewhere far from what you’ve expected or you could just be a few steps away from what you wanted. 

In life, everyone regrets something. Regret not studying hard, regret making this decision, regret for not cherishing someone etc. We all regrets an action. I’ve made this decision to let go someone that was dear to me and I’m regretting this decision but somehow it was for the best. In the process of making that decision, I’ve hurt both of us (not really sure if it mattered to that person). It took me years to come to term with myself that I have to apologize for what I’ve done and I will when the time is right. 

Never be afraid to be sorry for what you’ve done. No matter how guilty, how mad or for any god damn reasons. Always apologize for something you’ve done that you know you’re wrong. Don’t live life with regrets. 


“She designed the life she loved”

Once again, all pictures are taken from Pinterest and I do not own any unless stated.-

Well, life hasn’t been easy and school was tiring. It’s a lot harder for me to concentrate in class especially when I’m studying a course I do not have passion for. At times like these, I question myself over and over again –  Why am I doing this? What is the purpose of me doing this? Who am I doing it for? I’ve got questions in my head and the answers for every single question but, none of the answers are for me. Despite all the struggles, it’s almost the third week of class and I still have many more to go. All that is left, is to endure the entire year and plan my life again; perhaps this time doing something I love?

I told myself that this platform is for me to jot down my feelings and all, but whenever I tried to get on here and try typing out my feelings, for some reason I just couldn’t do it nor could I utter a single sound. Completely silent would be the best words to describe it. It’s like, I feel overwhelms by all my emotions but, no words could describe how I feel. I’m so damn complicated that I have no idea where this post is gonna lead to.


a girl is willing to let go of her past and forgive others in order to forgive herself for all her sins. 
a girl wishes for nothing more but just happiness. Happiness in others and herself.


Be Happy

Thought Of The Day: Why does the rain make me feel so peaceful and relaxed?

This post was suppose to go up yesterday with me ranting about how much I dislike Thursday more than Monday, but don’t think I will be typing my entire rant now since it’s Friday today!

So, a little quick summary of why I dislike Thursday. To me, Thursday seems so near to the weekends yet so far away. I’ve always thought to myself like, “Why can’t today be Friday? So I wouldn’t have to go to work tomorrow”. When I was working, many of these bad things happened on a Thursday and a perfect example would be – Yesterday. Things happened during work and I was quite upset which then also mark my last day of work, which to be honest I am so glad about. I’d like to thank my friends for listening to my rants because work would be in a misery if I wasn’t able to rant, so thank you guys (you know who you are, even if no one is reading this but it’s totally ok because like I said before, this is my little journal for me to jot down most things that occured in my life).

So it has been raining the entire day which I am so happy about because I absolutely love the rain. It makes me feel calm, peaceful and relaxed even just for a few minutes. I woke up early in the morning and began job hunting which is not easy. I have never liked the process of finding job, you find a job, you send in resume, you wait, you get an interview, you wait, you received a call and then you start work in a completely new environment with rooms full of strangers. I have learned some pretty good lesson from my previous job and I’m gonna make sure I won’t repeat them again but this is life, you learn from your mistake.

6 more days till I start school, wouldn’t say I’m 100% ready for it but I am quite excited. Taking a year break in 2016 was totally worth it, I needed time to fix myself so I could be a better person this year and it worked. I’ve made a goal with myself in the beginning of 2017 and that is to complete the task that was set for me in 2016 – To do things that I should have done in 2016 (A little weird, but yes) which is surpsingly going damn well. I found a job (which then I lost it again, but at least I worked), I’m going back to school, I chop my hair off (which I’m loving it right now and wish I could have chop more) and I’m on a journey to eating healthy. I’m also loving myself and the others around me more, I’ve stop taking others for granted, I am starting to be more open than before and I am trying out new things.

At the end of the day, it’s all about being happy with yourself and everyone around you. You don’t need anyone to teach you how to be happy, for happiness cannot be taught. You don’t need anyone to teach you how to love, for love comes within your heart and you definitely don’t need anyone’s opinion to tell you how to live your own life. You do you, and as long as you’re happy that is enough.


Starting anew

Here lies all the unspoken words from me;

This shall be my little journal for me to note down everything that’s happening in my life. Perhaps one day I’ll be able to look back and reminisce the good ol’ times.

I honestly don’t give a damn if anyone is reading this or not but to me, this is like a little therapy session with myself. Instead of bottling up all my feelings, I decided to write them all down and even include my daily life in it because why not? Most of these pictures are found on Pinterest & they are absolutely amazing.